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Life and Time

Life and time are really strange; they both have a connection which shows us many things. For the first time I have understood that time can give you so much, only if u can give yourself some time. When I was busy with life in terms of office and home I was not happy. There was something which I felt was missing. It was just a feeling without even knowing what it was. I met with an accident a few weeks back and that gave me some quality time to myself. During this period my time bought so many changes in my life, it gave me new friends , surprisingly they were the same people whom I knew but was never able to build strong relation and then I realized if we have time then we have realtions. Initially I was cribbing why the accident, but only later I realized how it helped me. I feel good ….. J Life is beautiful, just that it has its own ways of making us realize that it cares for us…. So friends whatever happen don’t just conclude your life WILL throw surprises…Cheers!!!

Answer

We have been living life without even knowing why, we eat coz we know we will die if we don’t, we work coz we know without working we won’t make a living, we know without sleeping we will be tired. So when every action of a man has reason, then why don’t we know the reason of our life? Nothing exists for no reason, nothing happens for no reason.   So why is it that we don’t know why we exist?   I believe it’s this reason we are living to know why we are here, few of us take that initiative to understand and few of us live without even asking this question. I also believe that this the toughest answer to seek, and who so ever has the answer are in history or will be in history. Only these people will be remembered when we are long gone. This also brings another question to my mind, is there actually a reason or we have to make a reason. All those men and women who are living through centuries for what they have achieved, did they knew the reason they are or were here or is ...

Installing Husband

One of the funniest mail I ever recieved...... INSTALLING HUSBAND!  A woman writes to the IT Technical support..... Dear  Tech Support  , Last year I upgraded from Boyfriend 5.0  to  Husband 1.0 and I noticed a  distinct slowdown  in the overall system performance, particularly in the  flower and jewellery applications , which operated flawlessly under Boyfriend 5.0.  In addition,  Husband 1.0 uninstalled many other valuable programs, such as Romance 9.5  and  Personal Attention 6.5  , and then installed undesirable programs such as  NEWS 5.0 , MONEY 3.0  and  CRICKET 4.1.   Conversation 8.0  no longer runs, and  Housecleaning 2.6 simply crashes the system. Please note that I have tried running  Nagging 5.3  to fix these problems, but to no avail. What can I do? Signed, _______ _________ _________ _________ _________ _________ _________ _______     REPLY...

Happiness

Happiness….. Wow!!! the moment you hear or read about this emotion, first thing which comes to our mind is why  am I not happy "or" we have a smile on our face- if we are actually happy… but we do have a reaction. I ask myself who is responsible for being happy or sad, “is it me? “ Or the world and trust me, I have always failed to answer myself for this question. But as we have to believe in something or the other I also do. But that changes very quickly as per the situation I've been thrown into.. I motivate myself and I convince my heart that I have more than what others can dream off… but in no time this world reminds me that I've been deprived of things which I believe I deserved and I blame it on this world. Is this a whirlpool which we all are been sucked in, will there ever be a day, wherein we can come out of it? I really don’t know! But what I do know is, this has been the same for everyone and if someone has to disagree than he or she is GOD. Do...

Nothing

In the beginning is nature; in the end is nature, so why in the middle do you make so much fuss? Why, in the middle, becoming so worried, so anxious, so ambitious - why create such despair? Nothingness to nothingness is the whole journey.

Me and Myself

Work, work, work. Play hard. Take a holiday. Go out. Have you seen the latest? And yet …. I crave to walk the roads, not alone, but in solitude, allowing my mind to breathe, to listen to the quite whispers going on between me and my mind. Between my conscious and subconscious. Every day to get to know myself again, to say a quite hello to myself, and give myself a gentle hug. And seemingly to do nothing. Nothing except just be…..…. for if not, I am no longer active. I fool myself into thinking that the flurry of activity is real. That it gives my presence on this planet worth It is an illusion. For it is just a flurry of reactivity.. It’s like my mind is leaving my heart behind. Often we believe that what happens is so directly related to what we do. Our actions. That is just our Ego. For often our actions are mere reactions. Reactions that actually impede what we set out to achieve. To do. Sometimes, it is good to sit back and believe. Just believe. Knowing that sometimes it is ...

Fear

Vulnerability comes from fear of loosing. Fear of loosing comes from an obsession for valuing. Obsession for Valuing comes from your own personal perception of values. And Perception of values come from a lack of core understanding and lack of core understanding comes from lack of decision making in moving on in life.  And lack of decision making comes from a fear of result. And fear of result comes from a desperation for success.  And desperation for success comes from fear of failure.  So as long as you don’t value Success you won’t fear Failure and when you don’t fear failure you will become Invincible.

Special

The beauty of art lies in reviving the patient not through cold, clinical methods but by providing that warm kiss of life which makes you embrace the world with renewed joy and vigour.

Killing your Dreams by Paulo coelho

by The first symptom of the process of our killing our dreams is the lack of time. The busiest people I have known in my life always have time enough to do everything. Those who do nothing are always tired and pay no attention to the little amount of work they are required to do. They complain constantly that the day is too short. The truth is, they are afraid to fight the Good Fight. The second symptom of the death of our dreams lies in our certainties. Because we don’t want to see life as a grand adventure, we begin to think of ourselves as wise and fair and correct in asking so little of life. We look beyond the walls of our day-to-day existence, and we hear the sound of lances breaking, we smell the dust and the sweat, and we see the great defeats and the fire in the eyes of the warriors. But we never see the delight, the immense delight in the hearts of those who are engaged in the battle. For them, neither victory nor defeat is important; what’s important is only that they ar...

First Entry

Well this is my first blog, have lot of thoughts but I guess I am going to keep it as simple as possible :) I hope I will have someone to read this and share their thought and inputs. I would like my blogs to be discussion forum rather than information. I had a blast this New Year’s eve. I was in Goa, had the best weekend of my life. What I observed there was people from different walks of life were there and the importance which we give to materialistic things had no value or meaning there. Whether you are in a BMW or you are walking the streets, you are being treated the same. If the entire world can give importance just to life itself  then this world would have been a better place to live. So all you people out there just be nice to everyone you meet, and hope you rub it on them so they can be nice to someone else.